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Sometimes “I’m happier alone” really means exactly that. But sometimes what looks like independence is actually relational defense: the emotional position we develop after disappointment, exhaustion, betrayal, repeated relationship failure, or years of feeling that love simply asks too much of us. It’s just plain too much work.
The Relational Defense Assessment & Guide helps you examine whether you have genuinely chosen singlehood from a place of wholeness, or whether you have gradually adapted to relational disappointment by checking out of love altogether. It’s important to understand your unconscious motivation to see if you really need to develop love-literacy and establish a relationship selection process that helps you understand and master the architecture of successful relationships.
How your expectations about relationships have changed
Whether emotional self-protection is influencing your choices
How self-sufficiency may have become relational withdrawal
Your current levels of trust, openness, and receptivity
The difference between healthy independence and relational defense
The assessment includes 35 self-reflection questions, a scoring guide, and interpretive guidance to help you understand what your results may be revealing.
You find yourself saying:
“Relationships are too much work.”
“I don't need anybody.”
“My life is peaceful. Why would I allow a relationship to mess it up?”
“I just don't have the energy for relationships anymore.”
“I would rather stay single than to deal with a man.”
You may be absolutely right. Or there may be something underneath those conclusions worth understanding. This guide helps you find out.
Relational Defense Assessment & Guide in the form of an Instant-access PDF Digital Download for self-reflection.
Price: $22 Sale Price: $18
Sometimes “I’m happier alone” really means exactly that. But sometimes what looks like independence is actually relational defense: the emotional position we develop after disappointment, exhaustion, betrayal, repeated relationship failure, or years of feeling that love simply asks too much of us. It’s just plain too much work.
The Relational Defense Assessment & Guide helps you examine whether you have genuinely chosen singlehood from a place of wholeness, or whether you have gradually adapted to relational disappointment by checking out of love altogether. It’s important to understand your unconscious motivation to see if you really need to develop love-literacy and establish a relationship selection process that helps you understand and master the architecture of successful relationships.
How your expectations about relationships have changed
Whether emotional self-protection is influencing your choices
How self-sufficiency may have become relational withdrawal
Your current levels of trust, openness, and receptivity
The difference between healthy independence and relational defense
The assessment includes 35 self-reflection questions, a scoring guide, and interpretive guidance to help you understand what your results may be revealing.
You find yourself saying:
“Relationships are too much work.”
“I don't need anybody.”
“My life is peaceful. Why would I allow a relationship to mess it up?”
“I just don't have the energy for relationships anymore.”
“I would rather stay single than to deal with a man.”
You may be absolutely right. Or there may be something underneath those conclusions worth understanding. This guide helps you find out.
Relational Defense Assessment & Guide in the form of an Instant-access PDF Digital Download for self-reflection.
Price: $22 Sale Price: $18